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#04 Tier 1Tier 2

Constructive Feedback & Growth

Goal: Today we'll learn how to give and receive feedback that helps everyone improve instead of feeling judged. Constructive feedback builds trust, teamwork, and continuous growth.

After This Lesson You’ll Be Able To

  • Tier 1 (9th-10th Grade): Recognize what makes feedback helpful and practice offering short, positive feedback statements.
  • Tier 2 (11th-12th Grade): Use a clear framework to provide professional feedback that supports learning and improvement.

1. Kick-Off (2-3 min)

Prompt: Think about a time someone gave you feedback that actually helped you get better. What made it helpful?

Goal: Activate awareness of feedback as a skill that promotes growth, not criticism.

2. Core Concepts (5-7 min)

Feedback SkillWhat It MeansPractice Moves
Be ClearFocus on one behavior or action, not the person.“When you missed the deadline, the group had to rush.”
Be ConstructiveOffer a way to improve or solve the issue.“Next time, we could set a reminder two days before.”
Be ConsiderateUse respectful tone and timing.Give feedback privately and kindly.
Ask Before TellingMake sure the other person is ready to listen.“Can I share something that might help next time?”
Receive with OpennessListen first, then reflect before reacting.Say, “Thanks for pointing that out; I’ll work on it.”

Mini Demo: Instructor role-plays two examples: one harsh and one constructive. Ask: “How did the second version sound different? Which would make you want to improve?”

3. Guided Work Time (12-15 min)

Tier 1 — Peer Practice: “Glow and Grow”

  • Exchange short written work or class reflections.
  • Write one Glow (what worked well) and one Grow (suggestion).
  • Share aloud using positive tone.

Tier 2 — Role Play: “SBI Framework”

  • In pairs, use the SBI method (Situation - Behavior - Impact).
  • Example: “In yesterday’s meeting (Situation), you cut off classmates (Behavior), and it made it hard to hear their ideas (Impact).”
  • Partners respond with “Thank you” and restate the feedback.

4. Reflection (2-3 min)

Exit Ticket (Schoology or Paper):

  • What makes feedback “constructive”?
  • What will you do differently the next time you give or receive feedback?